Coming out of the poly-closet.

So I am polyamorous. I do believe that it is possible to successfully love more then one person at the same time. I know that the key to any successfully relationship, poly or mono is honesty and communications.

I have lived a monogamous lifestyle for the past ten years, Kelly was a monogamous woman, and I respected that. I enjoyed my life with her, but that is over and I have to go on. I lived in a poly-relationship before I met Kelly. That relationship, a triad, ended; although we were still roommates when I met Kelly. That relationship was not as planned and probably would have been helped greatly by both better planning and better communication.

I know there are poly-groups in the Phoenix area, but from what I have been able to find they all meet on the on the weekends and in the far southeast valley, inconvenient and difficult to get to.

To that end I have started Phoenix Polys. The groups mailing list is at Yahoo Group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PhxPoly, there is also a Twitter channel at www.Twitter.com/PhxPolys. We will be having our first meeting at the Genghis Grill at the Tempe Marketplace on Tuesday September 16th. So if you are polyamorous, poly-curious or just poly-friendly. Come and join us (or just me) for a good meal and some conversation.