I am a Fashion Design Student, at Mesa Community College. I want to change the relationship most of us have with clothes we wear. I am married to my husband Cinder, and we with live his other husband, our daughter, dog and three terrapins in Tempe, AZ.
On Saturday I went to APEX’s Kink Karnival. I got there early about 10:30 and that turned out to be good thing, it allowed me to get my feet under me in the strange space. Although I knew only a few people there, I had a good time. I got a great deal on a great brown coat from one the retailers (it felt like stealing). I saw some great demos of Needle Play, Medical Stapling, Victorian Discipline, Fire Play, and caught part of the Puppy Play demo. All of these were very interesting and got my mind going, to bad I don’t have any one to play with at the moment. :-/
Found out more info on the local young kinksters group TNG-AZ and will be going to there next meet-up on the 25th, although I’ve yet to be able to log into their forums. I think I will join their group, even though their meet-ups are all on the East Side, grr. But hopefully I will have my Syrne back soon and be able to cheaply go out to these events cheaply.
So I am polyamorous. I do believe that it is possible to successfully love more then one person at the same time. I know that the key to any successfully relationship, poly or mono is honesty and communications.
I have lived a monogamous lifestyle for the past ten years, Kelly was a monogamous woman, and I respected that. I enjoyed my life with her, but that is over and I have to go on. I lived in a poly-relationship before I met Kelly. That relationship, a triad, ended; although we were still roommates when I met Kelly. That relationship was not as planned and probably would have been helped greatly by both better planning and better communication.
I know there are poly-groups in the Phoenix area, but from what I have been able to find they all meet on the on the weekends and in the far southeast valley, inconvenient and difficult to get to.
To that end I have started Phoenix Polys. The groups mailing list is at Yahoo Group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PhxPoly, there is also a Twitter channel at www.Twitter.com/PhxPolys. We will be having our first meeting at the Genghis Grill at the Tempe Marketplace on Tuesday September 16th. So if you are polyamorous, poly-curious or just poly-friendly. Come and join us (or just me) for a good meal and some conversation.
